First of all, I believe all women are queens at heart. They are beautiful in every way that makes them unique, they were designed by God personally out of a piece of our side to be our companion, equal, and partner. Inside every woman is what it takes to be a true queen, however it is each women’s throne to take or abdicate.
Every woman makes choices that will push them toward their throne to become a true queen, or drive them away as they make themselves unworthy. Women, you control so much more than many give themselves credit for. You control the people you deal with, associate with and talk to in every way. Far too often I see women drag themselves down by the friends they keep (both male and female), the guys they talk to and deal with. No offense to anyone out there (we all encounter people who we should of never met) but it is hard to be a queen when you deal with scum. This problem gets compounded when the list of people you have dealt with grows at an alarming rate (if you know what I mean). I may be beating a dead horse but if you wish to be a queen choose those who you feel are real kings in all facets of their lives.
Lastly aside from the people you deal with, the most important factor is in how you carry yourselves. One cannot become the queen they are meant to be if you don’t act like it and believe in it yourself. No matter what you have been through, think you look like (I know far too many beautiful women who have issues with their bodies), or have done (everyone makes mistakes), it is never too late to wake up and realize that you are a queen. You cannot do or accomplish anything unless you believe in it and work towards it. Realize how precious your mind, body and spirits are. Stop allowing any of those three to be compromised by anyone or anything not worthy of your royal selves. If you allow it then it is what you are, half of the problem with women realizing their crowns is the lack of true kings out there. However part of that flaw is due to the lowered standards given up by women. All women are beautiful queens, gifts from god, but sadly far too many abdicate their thrones.
Friday, May 29, 2009
Monday, May 25, 2009
Life Is Short
Life is short, how many times we hear such a cliché, but what does it really mean to us? How often do we even think of it? Why does it take the most extreme of circumstances that we can come by in our lives before people wake up and realize that some things are more important than people’s petty differences? Far too often we don’t think about the bigger picture life has to hold when we deal in our relationships with friends and family, and even with significant others.
We are inclined to argue and “beef” with other people for the simplest of reasons. How many times do we think twice when arguing bickering and rejecting opportunities to express how we feel? People have heard the idea that at any moment you say goodbye, walk away, or turn your back on someone it may be the last time you ever see them. Being as it may, based on the things I believe we have all witnessed, experienced, or said ourselves it is clear that people do not think about such a thing. Before you decide not to say how you really feel, tell the truth, be open and honest, or end things on a bad note, beware of that fact, and be more appreciative and respective of life.
We are inclined to argue and “beef” with other people for the simplest of reasons. How many times do we think twice when arguing bickering and rejecting opportunities to express how we feel? People have heard the idea that at any moment you say goodbye, walk away, or turn your back on someone it may be the last time you ever see them. Being as it may, based on the things I believe we have all witnessed, experienced, or said ourselves it is clear that people do not think about such a thing. Before you decide not to say how you really feel, tell the truth, be open and honest, or end things on a bad note, beware of that fact, and be more appreciative and respective of life.
Monday, May 18, 2009
The Power Of Words
Some people don’t truly realize the power that their words and actions can have on other people. For some words can cut deeper than any knife. When you are in an argument with someone, ESPECIALLY if it’s with someone you care about or someone who cares a lot about you. It is in times like this that we have to control the things we say, because it is in those times that you can say something you didn’t really mean out of anger. In those times the wrong comment can never be taken back.
When in a heated argument, especially when dealing with someone who may have wronged you, you must consider how they feel. Even when the other person is dead wrong and we are steaming mad, consider how sorry the other person is feeling inside. Often we are so mad that we say extremely hurtful things that may push a person to the brink. In this day and age you can never truly know what a person’s emotional mind state really is. It would be a terrible thing if the things you said out of anger made a person do something rash (and irreversible if you know what I mean…).
For those comments toward strangers consider this, you never know what is going on in someone else’s life. In a way you never know what can be going on behind the scenes in the lives of those close to you. It’s a shame when we are rude to one another without really thinking about it, half of us don’t mean it, it’s just how we have grown accustom. The simplest acts can turn someone else’s day around creating a chain reaction we can’t see. Sometimes, even in the midst of our own annoyances we can still take the time out to make a day.
Ultimately we must think both before we open our mouths and before we react. That is a lost art in today’s world. And sometimes even when we are totally uninvolved we can make a world of a difference. I have done it before in too many different accounts to name, but even I have missed opportunities. We never know how deep our actions can be. I have made some decisions to act when I saw others in distress that later on they told me may have saved their life because of how low they were feeling. We cannot always see the consequence of our actions, but we can always think before we make them.
When in a heated argument, especially when dealing with someone who may have wronged you, you must consider how they feel. Even when the other person is dead wrong and we are steaming mad, consider how sorry the other person is feeling inside. Often we are so mad that we say extremely hurtful things that may push a person to the brink. In this day and age you can never truly know what a person’s emotional mind state really is. It would be a terrible thing if the things you said out of anger made a person do something rash (and irreversible if you know what I mean…).
For those comments toward strangers consider this, you never know what is going on in someone else’s life. In a way you never know what can be going on behind the scenes in the lives of those close to you. It’s a shame when we are rude to one another without really thinking about it, half of us don’t mean it, it’s just how we have grown accustom. The simplest acts can turn someone else’s day around creating a chain reaction we can’t see. Sometimes, even in the midst of our own annoyances we can still take the time out to make a day.
Ultimately we must think both before we open our mouths and before we react. That is a lost art in today’s world. And sometimes even when we are totally uninvolved we can make a world of a difference. I have done it before in too many different accounts to name, but even I have missed opportunities. We never know how deep our actions can be. I have made some decisions to act when I saw others in distress that later on they told me may have saved their life because of how low they were feeling. We cannot always see the consequence of our actions, but we can always think before we make them.
Friday, May 15, 2009
Take Your Time
Far too often the young ladies of the world out there do foolish things all in pursuit of finding the right one. Guys do this as well, just because it is a great thing to be in a relationship, we cannot rush to find such a thing. Anything good in life, be it wine or cheese, or what ever floats your boat, they all take TIME. It is not advisable to go running around with your heart on your sleeve, that like playing the lotto with your rent money, the reward can be great, but it is a almost certainty of being homeless.
For all those guys and girls out there, here is something to think about. If you get in a serious relationship, make sure it is someone who you could see yourself married to. Why get serious especially in or after college with someone who you say to yourself you couldn’t marry? I have seen people do this and wonder why things go bad. Why set yourselves up for failure? If you meet a person that is cussin, fussin, partying, drinking, smoking, getting totally wasted, then be prepared for that. And be prepared for all the problems that will come out of it like getting drunk and doing stupid stuff, being around the wrong people, etc. I honestly think some people just don’t pay attention to what they are looking at or getting into, TAKE YOUR TIME, and really find out what people are about.
TAKE YOUR TIME (men and women alike), learn the background of the people you deal with before you get serious. I have said it before if someone is good and genuine it will reign true in all aspects of their life. If a person is good to you and bad by everyone else and through reputation that that means one of two things; On one hand they could be putting up a front and running game on you, or two they are good inside but are 50/50 cause their bad everywhere else. Some people are not looking for anything serious and therefore don’t care, but for those who are think about these things. If you go with the 50/50 or even the game runner be prepared for the results, and when the crap hits the fan don’t be one of the “men aint nothing” group. If you are willing to play with those odds, be prepared to lose…
For all those guys and girls out there, here is something to think about. If you get in a serious relationship, make sure it is someone who you could see yourself married to. Why get serious especially in or after college with someone who you say to yourself you couldn’t marry? I have seen people do this and wonder why things go bad. Why set yourselves up for failure? If you meet a person that is cussin, fussin, partying, drinking, smoking, getting totally wasted, then be prepared for that. And be prepared for all the problems that will come out of it like getting drunk and doing stupid stuff, being around the wrong people, etc. I honestly think some people just don’t pay attention to what they are looking at or getting into, TAKE YOUR TIME, and really find out what people are about.
TAKE YOUR TIME (men and women alike), learn the background of the people you deal with before you get serious. I have said it before if someone is good and genuine it will reign true in all aspects of their life. If a person is good to you and bad by everyone else and through reputation that that means one of two things; On one hand they could be putting up a front and running game on you, or two they are good inside but are 50/50 cause their bad everywhere else. Some people are not looking for anything serious and therefore don’t care, but for those who are think about these things. If you go with the 50/50 or even the game runner be prepared for the results, and when the crap hits the fan don’t be one of the “men aint nothing” group. If you are willing to play with those odds, be prepared to lose…
Space
If I could jump as high as I could
Out of this world I would
I think I would land on the moon
Knowing I would leave there soon
To the depths of space I go
Only here can my mind flow
I couldn’t describe what I seen
Or even the emptiness in between
Only here can the sun be so bright
Only here can one see such a sight
The beauty of creation in outer space
Only here did I find my place
Here things made perfect sense
Peace in space so immense
To think it can’t last forever
Or that I could even experience this endeavor
Who would have known unless I tried
That next to a star I could glide
Eventually it would come to an end
A limit to the time I could spend
Back to the moon to watch Earth’s show
To witness ignorance, violence and strife grow
Should I even go back from where I came?
Only to find things still the same?
I can’t survive on the moon much longer
I need a souvenir to keep me stronger
So I take a rock before I leave
As I lack the air I breathe…
This goes out to those who go through it, and sometimes you just wanna get away, life is hard, but it makes us stronger. I was influenced by the scene in the movie "The Watchmen" where Dr. Manhattan escapes harassment by going to mars. Even he had to step back.
Out of this world I would
I think I would land on the moon
Knowing I would leave there soon
To the depths of space I go
Only here can my mind flow
I couldn’t describe what I seen
Or even the emptiness in between
Only here can the sun be so bright
Only here can one see such a sight
The beauty of creation in outer space
Only here did I find my place
Here things made perfect sense
Peace in space so immense
To think it can’t last forever
Or that I could even experience this endeavor
Who would have known unless I tried
That next to a star I could glide
Eventually it would come to an end
A limit to the time I could spend
Back to the moon to watch Earth’s show
To witness ignorance, violence and strife grow
Should I even go back from where I came?
Only to find things still the same?
I can’t survive on the moon much longer
I need a souvenir to keep me stronger
So I take a rock before I leave
As I lack the air I breathe…
This goes out to those who go through it, and sometimes you just wanna get away, life is hard, but it makes us stronger. I was influenced by the scene in the movie "The Watchmen" where Dr. Manhattan escapes harassment by going to mars. Even he had to step back.
Walk On By
As I walk past you I seem to be at a loss of words, kinda like I lost the verbs
To describe how I feel when I saw you, thinking about what I would do
If you only knew, how I would treat you if you were by your side
But I am not your confide, all because of what I did way back when
Destroying what should have been, changing the future
Creating wounds that no needle could suture, with no clear fix
Here I am lost in the mix, thinking about the way look on past
Like im not there cause im clear as glass, about the way I feel
But it had to happen that way as I reveal, the reasons why that path was chosen
And our lines were broken, the we drifted away and apart
Like when we didn’t know each other at the start, but we came together quickly
And it was over just as swiftly, but I will never forget
My memories forever in your debt, for the beautiful short time
Back when I thought you could be mine, now you catch a corner of my eye
And ill wonder next time I walk on by, do you think like I do?
Do you wonder if I knew? If what we felt was really true.
This goes out to those who are overlooked, often so close to what or who we want, even unsure if its mutual, but yet continue to walk on by, life is short, live it yall!
To describe how I feel when I saw you, thinking about what I would do
If you only knew, how I would treat you if you were by your side
But I am not your confide, all because of what I did way back when
Destroying what should have been, changing the future
Creating wounds that no needle could suture, with no clear fix
Here I am lost in the mix, thinking about the way look on past
Like im not there cause im clear as glass, about the way I feel
But it had to happen that way as I reveal, the reasons why that path was chosen
And our lines were broken, the we drifted away and apart
Like when we didn’t know each other at the start, but we came together quickly
And it was over just as swiftly, but I will never forget
My memories forever in your debt, for the beautiful short time
Back when I thought you could be mine, now you catch a corner of my eye
And ill wonder next time I walk on by, do you think like I do?
Do you wonder if I knew? If what we felt was really true.
This goes out to those who are overlooked, often so close to what or who we want, even unsure if its mutual, but yet continue to walk on by, life is short, live it yall!
Solar Eclipse
I was always used to the dark, and the beautiful moonlight
It made my nights a beautiful sight
Till one day the moon decided not to come out that night
The day began and out came the sun with all its might
I would have never met her if the moon never hid her light
And now it was the sun that was all I wanted in sight
After I had grew for the sun’s lighted lips
The moon decided to create a solar eclipse
And forced the darkness back into my script
I had to endure the dark once again
Wondering if the sun would still be my friend
But light and dark will never blend
Now I left my moon in a way I can’t comprehend
But I was excited to see the sun once again
But it was too late, the sun decided to set around the worlds end
I wonder what it would have been like to enjoy the sun
Now my days are cloudy and I seem to of lost my grip
All because of a solar eclipse…
This one goes out to anybody who ever had to sacrifice someone for the other
It made my nights a beautiful sight
Till one day the moon decided not to come out that night
The day began and out came the sun with all its might
I would have never met her if the moon never hid her light
And now it was the sun that was all I wanted in sight
After I had grew for the sun’s lighted lips
The moon decided to create a solar eclipse
And forced the darkness back into my script
I had to endure the dark once again
Wondering if the sun would still be my friend
But light and dark will never blend
Now I left my moon in a way I can’t comprehend
But I was excited to see the sun once again
But it was too late, the sun decided to set around the worlds end
I wonder what it would have been like to enjoy the sun
Now my days are cloudy and I seem to of lost my grip
All because of a solar eclipse…
This one goes out to anybody who ever had to sacrifice someone for the other
Poetry In Motion
Tall, dark, and handsome, smoother than baby lotion
If only they knew that man was deeper than the ocean
The ladies get addicted like he has a special potion
All the girls love to see his poetry in motion
To the world unknown, with no chance of a notion
A good example of a man, never the cause of commotion
Hard work, faith and sacrifice, the definition of devotion
The living personification of poetry in motion
If only they could see my poetry
The awkward little things that makes me, me
Cause being who I am sets me free
Like me you will, I guarantee
And if you don’t then I won’t plea
But all I know is most agree
Now look at everyone checking out my poetry......... in motion
This one i wrote about myself, had to toot my own horn here with a touch of comedy, but it also goes out to all those overlooked people, sometimes we don't realize how great we really are.
If only they knew that man was deeper than the ocean
The ladies get addicted like he has a special potion
All the girls love to see his poetry in motion
To the world unknown, with no chance of a notion
A good example of a man, never the cause of commotion
Hard work, faith and sacrifice, the definition of devotion
The living personification of poetry in motion
If only they could see my poetry
The awkward little things that makes me, me
Cause being who I am sets me free
Like me you will, I guarantee
And if you don’t then I won’t plea
But all I know is most agree
Now look at everyone checking out my poetry......... in motion
This one i wrote about myself, had to toot my own horn here with a touch of comedy, but it also goes out to all those overlooked people, sometimes we don't realize how great we really are.
Just Like A Star
Just like a star can fall out the sky
Just like you can lose that look in your eye
Just like my love waits in standby
In faith and God I will have to rely
Just like a star is how my love endures
Through the test of time our love tours
That’s why I know my love is mature
Because I know, what I feel is for sure
Just like a star burns with fire
Only for you my heart desires
If only you knew how your love inspired
If only my love never backfired…..
Just like a star shines oh so bright
When things get dark I won’t give up the fight
Even when there is no peace in sight
Together we can light up any night
Just like a star is beautiful and strong
Especially when love can do no wrong
Hopefully no matter what we will get along
And both of us can end up where we belong
Just like a star will never end
It’s possible I could risk a dear friend
Because some wounds never mend
Because two hearts are unable to blend
This was written for someone special at the time, who will always be special to me no matter what, and is clearly influenced by "Just Like A Star" by Corrine Baily Rae
Just like you can lose that look in your eye
Just like my love waits in standby
In faith and God I will have to rely
Just like a star is how my love endures
Through the test of time our love tours
That’s why I know my love is mature
Because I know, what I feel is for sure
Just like a star burns with fire
Only for you my heart desires
If only you knew how your love inspired
If only my love never backfired…..
Just like a star shines oh so bright
When things get dark I won’t give up the fight
Even when there is no peace in sight
Together we can light up any night
Just like a star is beautiful and strong
Especially when love can do no wrong
Hopefully no matter what we will get along
And both of us can end up where we belong
Just like a star will never end
It’s possible I could risk a dear friend
Because some wounds never mend
Because two hearts are unable to blend
This was written for someone special at the time, who will always be special to me no matter what, and is clearly influenced by "Just Like A Star" by Corrine Baily Rae
Choice To Make
Some many decisions I have yet to make
About the fate of many hearts to break
Should I hear your warning and protect myself?
Maybe I should step back and put my heart on the shelf?
Last time I put my heart out there I ended up humbled
You didn’t mean to, but my heart u still fumbled
Whose fault was that? I guess mine for trying
But life without love is only good for dying
Here we stand at a crossroads in our lives
Down this path, only one type of “ship” can survive
If only there was some way for everything to thrive
For yours and mine futures to collide
So here I stand with a choice to make
About the fate of two hearts to break
If everything happens for a reason
Then why did our hearts decide to commit treason?
This one goes out to anybody who had to make a tough choice, of one person over another, or even if you should give a person another chance, i know it can be hard.
About the fate of many hearts to break
Should I hear your warning and protect myself?
Maybe I should step back and put my heart on the shelf?
Last time I put my heart out there I ended up humbled
You didn’t mean to, but my heart u still fumbled
Whose fault was that? I guess mine for trying
But life without love is only good for dying
Here we stand at a crossroads in our lives
Down this path, only one type of “ship” can survive
If only there was some way for everything to thrive
For yours and mine futures to collide
So here I stand with a choice to make
About the fate of two hearts to break
If everything happens for a reason
Then why did our hearts decide to commit treason?
This one goes out to anybody who had to make a tough choice, of one person over another, or even if you should give a person another chance, i know it can be hard.
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