Blind?

Why Is it that we cannot see what is right in front of us? Or see things for what we really are?

Can we really be that blind?

I have seen many men and women overlook wonderful people right in front or around them, bypassing them for sorry excuses of people, then shunning the opposing race as being worthless cause you made a poor choice.

Women overlook the good men right in front of them for miserable ass nigga’s who aren’t worth a damn, then get mad and say that men are worthless. Then they categorize all men as being sorry or about one thing. They try to give it another shot but they go after the same type of guy, only to get the same thing. They over look the “nice guys” for fake ass thugs or so called gangsters who turn out to be miserable excuses for boys, let alone so called “men”. To make things worse they probably overlooked, stepped on, or just pushed away a really good man who was right in front of them.

Men do the same things, they ignore the beautiful women right in front of them only to deal with some chick who they think looks better cause their features are bigger or cause they dress like a hoe, then get their hearts broken when they find out that they got involved with a miserable excuse for a girl, let alone a so called woman. All the while probably ignoring some really good women right in front of them.

It is worse when that good man or women become corrupted cause they been dealing with scum, and they in turn become scum their selves, the very thing that hurt them. When one allows themselves to go bad cause of the way they have been done wrong, therein you get a cycle of bad people corrupting good people. Also, it is horrible when one who has been dealing with scum, don’t even know what to do with a good person when they literally fall into their laps. They end up pushing them away, or hurting them all cause of their own past bad experiences.

I can speak form experience, as one who was lied to about everything from the very beginning, to being hurt, and then some. Yea it hurts, and you gonna have to take your time to get over it, but don’t let bad experiences ruin your future choices and decisions. And i know that i pretty sure myself that i have made the same mistakes of over looking and even ignoring, but its time to wake up. Don’t let someone else pay for the mistakes of others. I myself am just now overcoming this. Of course nobody is perfect, and you are going to make mistakes but just make sure you learn from them. Open your eyes, take a closer look at those around you, you never know where that good person for you is just standing there, just excuse them for not literally having a angel’s halo floating over their heads.

Just like anything in life, don't give up on what you want and what you are looking for, And for all those out there who are the overlooked and under appreciated great people, keep on pushing, it will pay off eventually, nice people don’t finish last forever…………..